Monday, October 26, 2009

Back Home

I just got back from Vegas tonight.  I went for a quick weekend trip.  It went by so quick and I am tired.  I am still waiting for the official Home Study report so I can send it off. I was told I would get it this week.  I feel like this process is very slowly grinding along.  Maybe I will hear something tomorrow.  I am going to bed.

Monday, October 19, 2009

Thanks Jennifer

It was great to hear from you Jennifer.  I appreciate the support.

I don't have anything new to talk about.  I thought I would hear from my agency today about the Home Study.  I am anxious to send the Home Study off the Immigration.

Friday, October 16, 2009

Questions

I have received a couple of questions.  The first one was how did I pick an adoption agency and the second was what is a Home Study?

It was really a challenge picking an agency.  It isn't everyday that someone adopts internationally.  So I investigated via the internet.  There are many agencies with flashy sites and others with boring/bland sites.  What I found is that many of the agencies that I attempted to contact never responded to my requests.  The ones that did responded a week or two later, and then there were those that were associated with one religion or another. Some agencies do not even work with Single Women, like we have the plague or something.  So it was easy to narrow it down.  At that point I looked for non-profit agencies and looked to see who was on their board.  Educators and service oriented folks (nurses, social workers) seemed to be on the boards of the better agencies.  Then I researched which countries I would consider adopting from.  There are not many countries that currently have an agreement with the US for adoption.  I had really thought I would go with a South American country, but there aren't any currently with an agreement with us.  Kazakhstan was an easy choice because their children tend to be much healthier than the other countries we work with.

So I called and emailed a bunch of agencies and then one night I found (with the help of my mom) European Adoption Consultants or EAC.  It was about 9PM and their website said that they have someone in their call center until 10 PM Eastern.  So I called and the phone was answered immediately.  The consultant then spent 1 1/2 hours on the phone with me answering my 25 plus questions that I had prepared.  I felt very good about this agency and I took it from there.

Ok, a Home Study is where a Social Worker interviews me at my home and collects all kinds of information on me and then fills out an extensive report explaining why or why not they recommend me for adoption.  I had to get a criminal background, provide a proof of insurance, give them info. on my financial situation, and a bunch of other things.

I hope I answered your questions.  Keep them coming.

Rachelle

Wednesday, October 14, 2009

Received the first draft of the Home Study Today

It was really weird to read my life on paper. And no you can't read it!

Tuesday, October 13, 2009

ARGH!

I typed a long message yesterday and for some reason it didn't get posted. What's even worse is I don't remember what I wrote. My mother would say, "then it wasn't very important." I am sure she would be right.

So today I spent an hour on the phone with Sara from the adoption agency going over the next 50 forms that I get to fill out. I sware I am buried in paperwork and it isn't work. So in about three to four weeks I will be getting finger printed. Things are moving along, but it isn't very interesting stuff right now.

Oh yeah, it costs $200 per person who travels with me to Kazakhstan. This is obviously the travel charges. It is what has to be paid to the Kazak government just to be allowed to travel to their country. I have to pay them to go there? It doesn't make sense to me, but what can you do.

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Sunday, October 11, 2009

WOW - I now have a blog!

I started the adoption process on 8/11/09 when I decided to work with the European Adoption Agency (EAC) which is based out of Ohio. I have kept a journal of the steps I have taken so far, but I think most everyone will find them boring. So I will save the previous journals for my future child. WOW, that is weird to say that.

The posts will be very slow for a while until it gets closer to my visits to Kazakhstan. There is so much that has to happen before I travel to the other side of the world. So I will post as interesting things happen.

I appreciate everyone's support during this process. It is going to be a long one.

Rachelle